Public nursing as a new mum can be daunting, but here is some helpful advice.
Wear helpful clothing: a loose fitting top which is short enough that you don't sit on it is great. It needs to be loose enough that you can lift it easily, and that it doesn't hitch up all the way round. Alternatively, breastfeeding tops are designed so that you can get access without lifting your top. These are great if you want to wear a fitted or longish top. Designs vary, and the best ones are cut to flatter the New Mum shape - bigger around the boob and not clingy around the tummy.
A long wide scarf or a pashmina can also be a useful aid as you latch baby on if you want to hide yourself from neighbours. Make sure you pop one in your baby changing bags.
And of course, don't forget underwear! Nursing or maternity underwear is a must, you need to be able to unclip quickly, and get something that fits properly. Try ordering a few styles in several sizes. Try them all on, move around and keep only those that really fit and feel comfortable.
Try to anticipate when baby is hungry, don't wait for him to be shouting. Lots of babies will have little signs that they're hungry before they start shouting the place down and drawing everyone's attention to themselves and Mum. You'll soon recognise the signs, and when you see them find a good place and get him attached!
If on the other hand you have baby like my oldest who would go from sleeping angel to famished and screaming in less than 10 seconds, the best you can do is have an idea of when he's likely to be hungry and get ready. My little one was such a heavy sleeper I sometimes got him into place on my lap whilst still asleep, waited for him to wake up, then got him attached before he knew what had happened.
Find a good spot to stop: to begin with at least you'll probably find it easiest to feed sitting in a straight backed chair, perhaps in a corner so you can see who's around, and with a long glass of water to hand. Avoid hectic and busy places if you have a very inquisitive baby as he'll be looking around (and trying to take your nipple with him) rather than concentrating on the job at hand. I like coffee shops, there's always somewhere to sit, drink is on hand, and you have something to do (eat muffins!) - 16651
Wear helpful clothing: a loose fitting top which is short enough that you don't sit on it is great. It needs to be loose enough that you can lift it easily, and that it doesn't hitch up all the way round. Alternatively, breastfeeding tops are designed so that you can get access without lifting your top. These are great if you want to wear a fitted or longish top. Designs vary, and the best ones are cut to flatter the New Mum shape - bigger around the boob and not clingy around the tummy.
A long wide scarf or a pashmina can also be a useful aid as you latch baby on if you want to hide yourself from neighbours. Make sure you pop one in your baby changing bags.
And of course, don't forget underwear! Nursing or maternity underwear is a must, you need to be able to unclip quickly, and get something that fits properly. Try ordering a few styles in several sizes. Try them all on, move around and keep only those that really fit and feel comfortable.
Try to anticipate when baby is hungry, don't wait for him to be shouting. Lots of babies will have little signs that they're hungry before they start shouting the place down and drawing everyone's attention to themselves and Mum. You'll soon recognise the signs, and when you see them find a good place and get him attached!
If on the other hand you have baby like my oldest who would go from sleeping angel to famished and screaming in less than 10 seconds, the best you can do is have an idea of when he's likely to be hungry and get ready. My little one was such a heavy sleeper I sometimes got him into place on my lap whilst still asleep, waited for him to wake up, then got him attached before he knew what had happened.
Find a good spot to stop: to begin with at least you'll probably find it easiest to feed sitting in a straight backed chair, perhaps in a corner so you can see who's around, and with a long glass of water to hand. Avoid hectic and busy places if you have a very inquisitive baby as he'll be looking around (and trying to take your nipple with him) rather than concentrating on the job at hand. I like coffee shops, there's always somewhere to sit, drink is on hand, and you have something to do (eat muffins!) - 16651
About the Author:
The author Joanne Garrett offers helpful advice on breastfeeding tops and baby changing bags at Cecily Plum her online store.
